A
simple girl from a
remote village of Kerala has become a celebrity in fine morning. She has
become a source of inspiration and a subject of discussion and among campus,
women’s organizations, families etc.
Sreekala, a very
common girl from Kollam has shown commitment and courage to fight against
dowry; by sacrificing her own engagement. Now, she has become a star in
Kerala. It is a story of how one fine morning a girl from a poor family
becomes a celebrity. Press, women's organizations, social forums approached
her and offered their support for her fight against dowry.
All the preparations
of her marriage had been done. Even the feast was almost ready. At the last
moment the fiancé’s relatives demanded the remaining amount. They had asked
for one lakh rupee as dowry at the time of engagement. But due to severe
financial problems, her father could not pay the full amount. He promised
the bridegroom's parents that they would pay 25,000 later.
But the bride grooms
people were not kind enough to agree this. They called on Sreekala's father
and scolded over telephone on the dowry issue. Her father had begged to the
bridegroom's father to compromise on the issue. Till the last anxious
moments Sreekala's family tried their best to solve the problem.
But
when the other side insisted on their demand, the heroine of this story has
taken a firm decision call off that marriage. She thought it was not fair to
marry a man whose family is demanding for dowry in such an indecent manner.
She wanted to avoid a life-partner who had tried to bargain her on dowry.
She discouraged her family to proceed with a marriage of convenience.
Many
prominent personalities called on Sreekala and promised their support to
fight against the social evil-dowry. Vanitha Commission chairperson Justice
D. Sreedevi visited Sreekala's small house in Kollam and appreciated her.” I
feel proud of Sreekala on her firm and brave decision against the evil dowry
system." - Sreedevi told. Sreekala would become a role model for all
girls-justice said.
Vanitha Commission is
planning to give an award to Sreekala as an encouragement of her heroic
attitude. As a surprise, at last Sreekala is married to her relative. After
the news flashed about Sreekala, her relative came forward to marry her and
they married within no time.
PS: reportedly, the bridegroom and his
relatives later agreed to conduct the marriage even without the rest of the
amount – what a pity? However Sreekala reiterated her stand and called off
that marriage which considered money than herself.
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